Ok so i've played some more with the idea.
In this release of the previous client-server thing up there.
- Turbo charged Function for getting the queue length. ( based on my 67 seconds research with strace over exim )
- Server Implementation in C++ WooooW.
- Client Implementation in C++ even more WOOOOWWW!

now this is what my screen looks like. The lines with one more blank unerneath are C++ Servers
the others Python servers ;)

Thu Mar 1 21:34:29 2007
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